| Good afternoon everyone. Thanks for joining us for today's webchat, which will be covering STIs, and how we can protect ourselves from them. |
| Gail wants to know: |
Are STIs the same thing as STDs? |
| Dr Mike Smith said: |
Virtually yes. An STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection) could be said to become a STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) if the effects it leaves the body with do not go when the infection itself has been treated. Infertility in women is one example. Tertiary Syphilis is another. The effects can then be irreversible. |
| Ben wants to know: |
What are the most common STIs? |
| Dr Mike said: |
Possibly thrush caused by a yeast/fungus called Candida. It can be passed on by sexual activity, although it can also arise out of the blue. The most common STI in the UK is Chlamydia usually followed by Gonorrhea. |
| F Lockman wants to know: |
Can you get STIs from oral sex? |
| Dr Mike said: |
Yes of course you can. The germs are most regularly passed from the sensitive membranes inside the penis and vagina into similar membranes anywhere in the body like the mouth and the anus - not just the genital organs the vagina and penis. |
| AB wants to know: |
I'm not having sex but do engage in foreplay with my girlfriend. Do I need to be worried about catching an STI? |
| Dr Mike said: |
It depends what you mean by foreplay. If you are not having penetrative sex (full intercourse) but your tongue or her tongue is going into parts of the body other than those lined with skin, then you can catch an STI but it's not so likely especially if all you are doing is sensual skin touching. |
| Val wants to know: |
Can you get sexually transmitted infections from sharing someone's towel or sex toys? |
| Dr Mike said: |
Again, not very likely. Do wash sex toys thoroughly. From a recently used towel or bed sheets you could pick up pubic lice. Nothing however can be guaranteed where infections are concerned. |
| Yvonne asks: |
Are condoms and abstinence the only protection from STIs? |
| Dr Mike Smith said: |
Abstinence almost certainly is. Condoms virtually always are, unless one splits during sex or comes off. However, condoms don't offer any t protection against pubic lice. |
| Talking of condoms, Dan97 wants to know: |
Does using two condoms provide more protection than using just one condom? |
| Dr Mike said: |
It will detract from the sensitivity for the man. I have never seen any evidence that two provides more protection than one. |
| Some relationship issues now and KBP asks: |
My boyfriend has been on holiday to the Far East and I'm worried he may have been going with the local girls, how can I tell if he has an STI? |
| Dr Mike said: |
You can't unless you know him well and know that he is thoroughly trustworthy. Only you can decide. |
| And Ceri has a similar worry: |
I think my partner may have caught an STI. I've been using all kinds of excuses to put off sex but can't do it much longer, how can I tactfully raise the subject with him? |
| Dr Mike said: |
You don't say why you think he may have an STI, would you like to enlarge on this please? |
| GerryM wants to know: |
I'm 18 and have been having unprotected sex for two years with a few girls who are on the pill. I've not experienced any symptoms of infections. Do I need to go for a STI test? |
| Dr Mike Smith said: |
That's up to you. If there are no symptoms in a man then it's not too likely that you will be carrying anything, which haven't caused you symptoms. However, you perhaps should be feeling that you owe it to any future partners you have to get yourself checked out in a GUM clinic (Genito Urinary Medicine Clinic). The specialist there can quickly tell you and if I may give you further advice, not least for your own protection, you would be wise to use a condom in future. |
| loverman wants to know: |
What will happen when I visit a GUM clinic? Will the examinations hurt? |
| Dr Mike said: |
You will be asked a few questions and your answers will be just between you and the responsible clinic staff. You will have swabs taken with things like cotton buds to look for "germs" and a sample of your blood will be taken to look for "markers" that signify infections may have been or still are present. Your genitals and also other parts of your body will also be examined. None of the examinations and investigations carried out should hurt. |
| Hidihi asks: |
How long is the average course of treatment for an STI? |
| Dr Mike said: |
It depends upon the infection and how much harm it may have done to your body and its tissues. The initial course of antibiotics, for example, is only likely to be for a matter of days. |
| Salim wants to know: |
If I've been successfully treated for a STD in the past, do I need to tell my current sexual partner? |
| Dr Mike said: |
If you know that you have been successfully treated then it is up to you. However, if your partner has been open with you about their past sexual experiences you may feel that it will enhance your relationship and future trust to do the same, but this is a moral question for you. |
| Nicegirl wants to know: |
I had unprotected sex when I was in my early 20s. Do any STIs lie dormant in your body? Is there a risk of an STI coming back once I've been successfully treated? |
| Dr Mike said: |
It is far more likely for a woman to harbour lingering infections although if you have been successfully treated in a specialist GUM clinic and given clearance then it's not very likely at all. |
| VG asks: |
My friend thinks she may have caught something from a one-night stand and she's worried she scared about going to her doctor as she lives in a small village. Is there anyone else that can help? |
| Dr Mike said: |
Yes of course. The GUM clinic which will be in the nearest big hospital well away from your village is the place to go. Your consultation will be entirely confidential so that is what I recommend you do. |
| hh7 wants to know: |
Are there any ways of self-treating STI's or do you always have to visit the doctor? It's so embarrassing. |
| Dr Mike Smith said: |
There are no ways to self-treat an STI. You can visit the GUM clinic totally anonymously. The staff there are so used to the sort of problem that you have, that you should not feel embarrassed in any way at all. |
| A couple of questions on specific STIs now and GH! asks: |
Are the crabs in your normal hair the same as down below and can they spread from one to the other? |
| Dr Mike said: |
No they are not. Each is adapted to its own chosen site. Head lice largely to the scalp, scabies largely to the skin and pubic lice largely to the pubic hair. |
| hh7 wants to know: |
I think I have lice as although I can't see anything, that region is really itchy. I don't want to go to the doctor, as it is our family doctor. If I shave off my pubic hair, will that get rid of it? |
| Dr Mike said: |
You don't need to do that, if you go to your local chemist, the pharmacist there can recommend a cream - usually Lyclear Dermal Cream - which will clear it up within 24 hours. It costs £9.62 and is odourless - so no one will know that you are using it. |
| Chriss wants to know: |
I've heard that is quite common to have penile papules that are harmless, but are very similar to genital warts. I'm now little bit in doubt if I have it. How can I be sure if I have warts or just harmless penile papules? PS I'm too shy to visit doctor with this problem. |
| Dr Mike said: |
Again, a visit to the GUM clinic will soon be able to reassure you. Penile papules may be due to a skin condition such as lichen planus, or indeed something as simple as a small sebaceous cyst although don't rely on that. Get examined at the GUM clinic. |
| Ems wants to know: |
I've heard Chlamydia is called the silent epidemic - why? |
| Dr Mike said: |
Because, especially in women it may sit there silently, causing no symptoms, but still being able to affect a partner. The woman may subsequently discover she is infertile when she tries to have a baby. |
| Glad has a supplementary question to one we received earlier, she says: |
You say that some sexual diseases can cause infertility for both men and women, how does that happen? |
| Dr Mike said: |
It's largely for women. Their fallopian tubes, which carry the ovum down into the womb and for fertilisation become scarred with the inflammation caused by Chlamydia in particular. A similar effect can occur in men but it is far far less common. |
| Eva wants to know: |
I'm young and unattached and if I meet the right person want to start a sexual relationship. I don't sleep around but I'd still like some tips on how I can protect myself from getting an STI? |
| Dr Mike said: |
Eva, make sure he uses a condom until your relationship reaches the point where you are both sure about each other and then seek other forms of contraceptive advice if you need to. There are female condoms but they are not in wide use and are somewhat more cumbersome. Especially for those first tentative sexual approaches and events the male condom is the far more practical means for protection against infection. Sexual activity is amongst the most fulfilling aspects of our humanity/human existence. Used properly it brings with it satisfactions over and above the merely sensual in terms of caring/loving relationships. Used in a selfish way it regularly causes damage for both you and your apparently carefree partners. Sometimes it is a disaster for the unintended offspring of such a throwaway "bit of fun". Lecture over! Enjoy! |